![]() ![]() However, when there is an anxious or avoidant attachment pattern and a person picks a partner who fits with that maladaptive pattern, they will most likely be choosing someone who isn’t the ideal choice to make them happy.įor example, the person with a working model of anxious/preoccupied attachment feels that in order to get close to someone and have your needs met, you need to be with your partner all the time and get reassurance. ![]() When there is a secure attachment pattern, a person is confident and self-possessed and is able to easily interact with others, meeting both their own and another’s needs. This model of attachment influences how each of us reacts to our needs and how we go about getting them met. An attachment pattern is established in early childhood attachments and continues to function as a working model for relationships in adulthood. That is why recognizing our attachment pattern can help us understand our strengths and vulnerabilities in a relationship. ![]() Our style of attachment affects everything from our partner selection to how well our relationships progress and to, sadly, how they end. Attachment, Relationship Advice, Relationships ![]()
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